as soon as people hear you say you're from Yale, it's an immediate off switch almost, people don't want to hear what you have to say, which I'm not trying to say that isn't like what was me, but it's just knowing your audience and not obscuring things but meeting people where they are and knowing that to get the most out of the things, the really cool things that you have to do interact with them with, that you may not want to talk about your pedigree coming from, I'm a graduate student at this prestigious institution, because that's not who we are at that event. I'm just a neighbor that happens to have a table with some slime.